{"id":1100,"date":"2024-03-22T13:22:17","date_gmt":"2024-03-22T11:22:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aysegulerdog.com\/?p=1100"},"modified":"2024-03-22T13:22:17","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T11:22:17","slug":"sadakalari-gizli-ve-asikar-alislar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aysegulerdog.com.tr\/?p=1100","title":{"rendered":"Sadakalar\u0131 gizli ve a\u015fikar al\u0131\u015flar"},"content":{"rendered":"<ul>\n<li><strong>Sadakalar\u0131 gizli ve a\u015fik\u00e2re al\u0131\u015flar:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Gizli almay\u0131 tercih edenler:<\/strong> Sadakalar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rken, etraf\u0131n g\u00f6rmesinden saklayarak, gizlice almay\u0131 tercih edenler, \u015f\u00f6yle aldanabilir: \u201cAleni al\u0131rsam, mevkim sars\u0131l\u0131r, bundan da etraf\u0131m zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Hem veren arkada\u015f\u0131ma da g\u00f6renler veya duyanlar iltifat yap\u0131nca, kibre d\u00fc\u015fmesine sebep olabilirim. Sonra etraf\u0131m beni hakir g\u00f6r\u00fcrse, kendilerine g\u00fcnah olur, onlar\u0131n da g\u00fcnah\u0131na sebep olurum. En iyisi ben, sadakay\u0131 gizli alay\u0131m\u201d, der. Bu ki\u015fi burada insaf ile kendine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda; e\u011fer kendine sadakay\u0131 aleni verdiklerinde duydu\u011fu \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, yan\u0131nda birisine sadaka verildi\u011finde duydu\u011fu \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ile ayn\u0131 ise, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi halistir, gizli almal\u0131d\u0131r. Yok e\u011fer bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc kalbinde hissetmiyor, sadece kendininkini hissediyorsa, a\u015fik\u00e2re almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u015fik\u00e2re almay\u0131 tercih edenler:<\/strong>Sadakay\u0131\u00a0 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildiren, aleniyete d\u00f6ken de, san\u0131r ki bu bildiri\u015f ile, verene dua etmi\u015f, methetmi\u015f, b\u00f6ylece g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc ho\u015f etmi\u015ftir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da b\u00f6ylece co\u015fturup, veri\u015flerine sebep olmu\u015ftur. Halbuki hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez ki belki de; methederken, sadaka verenlerden, methedilmeyi sevenlerin kendisini bulup, sadakalar\u0131n\u0131 vermelerini ummaktad\u0131r. Bu gizli bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r. Ki\u015fi nefsini \u015f\u00f6yle kontrol etmelidir: E\u011fer,aleni verene dua ve methetti\u011fi gibi, gizli verene de, o ki\u015fi duymasa bile g\u0131yab\u0131nda ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde dua ve methediyorsa, burada nimete \u015f\u00fckretmi\u015ftir. Nefsinin oyununa gelmemi\u015ftir, denir. E\u011fer veren, \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi seviyorsa, \u00f6vmez. Sevmiyorsa, te\u015fekk\u00fcr ve dua eder.<\/p>\n<p>Sadakay\u0131 aleni vermeye gelince; \u201cBen aleni verirsem, vermeye niyeti olmayanlar\u0131 da te\u015fvik etmi\u015f olurum\u201d diye nefsinin aldatmas\u0131na u\u011frayabilir. Bu ki\u015fi de nefsini\u00a0 \u015f\u00f6yle kontrol etmelidir: E\u011fer, sadaka verdi\u011fi duyuldu\u011funda veya g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00f6v\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman memnun oluyorsa, sadakay\u0131 g\u00f6steri\u015f i\u00e7in vermi\u015ftir. Bu hastal\u0131ktan temizlenmek ve kurtulmak i\u00e7in, art\u0131k hep gizli vermelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Hz. Peygamberimiz(s.a.v.), baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ver, baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in ise \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi sak\u0131ncal\u0131 bulurdu. Huzurlar\u0131nda \u00f6v\u00fclen biri i\u00e7in: \u201cBoynunu vurdunuz. E\u011fer methinizi duysayd\u0131 fel\u00e2h bulmazd\u0131\u201d (Buhari, M\u00fcslim) buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, kendilerine zarar vermeyip, hayra te\u015fvik edece\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131, ve Yak\u00een elde etmi\u015f olduklar\u0131na kanaat getirdi\u011fi baz\u0131 ki\u015fileri y\u00fczlerine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6vm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr: \u201c M\u00fc\u2019min \u00f6v\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, kalbindeki iman\u0131 artar\u201d buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcfyan-\u0131 Serv\u00ee, \u201cKendini bilene insanlar\u0131n \u00f6vmesi zarar vermez\u201d demi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zet olarak: En iyisi sadakay\u0131 gizli vermek ve a\u015fik\u00e2re almakt\u0131r. Ancak gizlilik ve a\u015fik\u00e2relik kendisi i\u00e7in e\u015fit olacak \u015fekilde marifet bak\u0131m\u0131ndan kemal bulmu\u015f\u00a0 kimseler m\u00fcstesnad\u0131r. Fakat bu ki\u015filer, az\u0131n az\u0131d\u0131r. Bu makamlara heves eden ve l\u00e2f\u0131n\u0131 yapanlar, kendilerini yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ranlar \u00e7oktur, ama bu makama y\u00fckselen yoktur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"signart-chrome-extension-is-installed\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sadakalar\u0131 gizli ve a\u015fik\u00e2re al\u0131\u015flar: Gizli almay\u0131 tercih edenler: Sadakalar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rken, etraf\u0131n g\u00f6rmesinden saklayarak, gizlice almay\u0131 tercih edenler, \u015f\u00f6yle aldanabilir: \u201cAleni al\u0131rsam, mevkim sars\u0131l\u0131r, bundan da etraf\u0131m zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Hem veren arkada\u015f\u0131ma da g\u00f6renler veya duyanlar iltifat yap\u0131nca, kibre d\u00fc\u015fmesine sebep olabilirim. Sonra etraf\u0131m beni hakir g\u00f6r\u00fcrse, kendilerine g\u00fcnah olur, onlar\u0131n da g\u00fcnah\u0131na sebep olurum. 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